Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
A Letter to the Person You Are Becoming
On the long, unglamorous work of growing into yourself.
The Journal
Daily writings, essays, observations and personal reflections.
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
On the long, unglamorous work of growing into yourself.
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
You do not have to solve grief tonight, or finish it, or justify it. You only have to let it rest beside you while you rest too. It can keep...
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
Disappointment is not proof that you aimed too high. It is proof that you aimed at something real enough to lose. The alternative — never ri...
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
Grief does not follow your schedule. It arrives on ordinary Tuesdays and leaves when it is ready. You do not have to be finished with it. Yo...
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
On the years that do not appear in the résumé.
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
We tend to measure love in grand gestures, but it is more often built from attention: the unhurried question, the remembered detail, the pho...
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
After the noise of a day, the quiet can feel almost accusing. Let it be a mercy instead. Nothing is required of you now but to be here, unhu...
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
Kindness is easy when it costs nothing. The version that matters is the one that tells the truth, keeps the boundary, or stays when leaving...
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
A quiet place you can return to without going anywhere.
There are rooms within us that noise cannot enter. Sometimes healing begins when we finally become quiet enough to find them.
Richard Nkwenti
@TheEmperor ·
Rest is not a reward for finished work; it is part of how the work gets done. The mind consolidates in the quiet. Take the rest before you h...